He must be independent and self motivated. He must be level headed who can cope with everyday happenings and not be looking for a mom! Must enjoy a social life, or going for a weekend away or even an evening at the theatre - a bit of an all rounder but who won’t mind a \"let loose evening, every now and again...If he has an opinion, lets hear it, I promise I will listen and respect it...he must be gentle, and a gentleman, but please have a spine. He must be down to earth, but the bikes aren’t allowed in the house, is that okay??? If he has a career that’s important to him, great, but draw the line somewhere, you can't go home to your career!!...Please care enough about yourself to live more or less healthily; you will win more of my respect. If you meditate, burn incense or believe that the energy you put out will basically predict your life, I won’t think you are totally weird and try not to laugh at you.